RESPONSIBILITY
[ri-spon-suh-bil-i-tee]
Definition of Responsible:
1. answerable or accountable, as for something within one's power, control, or management (often followed by to or for ): He is responsible to the president for his decisions.
2. involving accountability or responsibility: a responsible position.
3. chargeable with being the author, cause, or occasion of something (usually followed by for ): Termites were responsible for the damage.
4. having a capacity for moral decisions and therefore accountable; capable of rational thought or action: The defendant is not responsible for his actions.
5. able to discharge obligations or pay debts.
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1. answerable or accountable, as for something within one's power, control, or management (often followed by to or for ): He is responsible to the president for his decisions.
2. involving accountability or responsibility: a responsible position.
3. chargeable with being the author, cause, or occasion of something (usually followed by for ): Termites were responsible for the damage.
4. having a capacity for moral decisions and therefore accountable; capable of rational thought or action: The defendant is not responsible for his actions.
5. able to discharge obligations or pay debts.
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Am I responsible?
The time has come where I make the transition from a child to an adult. Already?! While some people, such as my roommates and friends are making this a smooth transition, I find myself getting stuck. To be honest, I do not feel that I am ready to be an adult yet. Yes, I am responsible enough to take care of my car, make my bed, complete my school work, and walk the dog; but I do not think I am responsible enough to pay my own bills, attend a "big-girl" doctor, rather than a pediatrician, or especially have my own classroom in my future profession as a teacher.
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Future is the keyword. I know one day I will be ready for all of these tasks but not today. However, my day to day activities are pushing me farther and farther into the real life. For example, I had a meeting with my advisor about graduation-- am I really ready to graduate?! I, also, just had a job interview for a volunteer position, where I wouldn't get a salary. Since when do I work without pay... since I decieded it would look amazing on my resume. So while my current feelings keep me stuck in my "childish" ways, my surroundings are pushing me towards being a full on responsible adult. Clickhere to edit.
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Breaking Down "Responsibility"
The word "responsible" includes various words that help define what the word means. Therefore, if I am responsible, wouldn't I also fit the words that define responsible? Let's take a closer look...
answerable or accountable, as for something within one's power, control, or management
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I would say that I am accountable for myself. I decide my own choices and actions that may affect my life in a positive or negative way. I feel comfortable being "answerable" to myself. I do not feel overwhelmed by this trait due to the fact that I have been taught to take accountability for my actions since I was little--- parents and teachers have taught me this skill. However, there are still aspects of this word that do not fit me. For example, I am not accountable for all of my bills. As a college student, my focus is my education and, fortunately, my parents understand this. They are still accountable for my financial needs: they pay for my college house, my tuition, my clothes (sometimes), my food (sometimes), etc.
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However, they do teach me to start to taking control of my own financial needs. So, I pay for my "extras." I pay for extra clothes that I don't need but want, my dinners when I go out with friends, the fun activities I do to keep busy and enjoy my day. A more specific example is the trip I am planning to go on in November. My best friend is studying abroad in London, so I paid for my plane ticket to visit her, and I am responsible for making my spending money. Once again, I am stuck on the edge between child and adult.
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chargeable with being
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Again, I am stuck in between adult and child for this definition. It's as if I am at a fork in the road. I am looking at two different paths that I can take. One saying "child" and another saying "adult." I am standing in the front of the two roads, confused on where to go. There are positives and negatives to both directions. BUT, it seems as if I can't make my own choice, I am being forced towards the adult path, by friends, family, teachers, and life. In reality, though, I become an adult when I am ready- when my actions and behavior match what I believe an adult is: responsible. In the case of being chargeable with being the author, cause, or occasion of something, this is sort of iffy. I am still a consumer.
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I am not a producer. I do not take command in many of my own ideas. For something like creating a concept for my Twitterive project, I must look for advice and guidence from my professor. No, this is not a bad thing. But I am not the true author of my work. Yes, I wrote it and created it but some of the thoughts have come from other people. For something as simple as deciding what to be for Halloween, I go to friends and family for their suggestions. Although these are not life-changing decisions that effect my life is a monumentous way, it is still something that is holding me back from being a true grown-up person.
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If I had to describe myself based on the word responsibility, this is the main part that suites me. For as long as I could remember, I always had a capacity for moral decisions. So I guess there was always an "adult" part of me. I hate breaking the rules and feel terrible if i actually do: the moral part of me. Of course, there are times when you have to break some rules but I always catch myself if I am about to do something dangerous or stupid.
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having a capacity for moral decisions and therefore accountable; capable of rational thought or action
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I do not fit this definition in any way. I am not able to support myself, financially. I work during the summers and a few weekends during the fall, winter, and spring. However, that money goes into my bank account and saved for me. I use that money to buy clothes, go out to restaurants, gas, vacations, overall anything "extracurricular" I do. I am not capacble of paying for my off-campus house at school, my college tuition, or anything of complete significance. I must relay on my parents to support me financially, which definitely categorizes me as a child.
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